Wednesday, 16 July 2008
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Taking me back?
ok so lets start off with what is bothering me the most right now which is the fact that i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years on and off. We have stopped talking for many times in spans of a few months. Now all of a sudden he loves another girl?? Out of nowhere he comes out with this idea. I couldn't believe it and he seems to be happy so i dont even know what to do because he is the love of my life and i dont see myself building a life and a family with no one other then him. He says he doesnt care about me but the fact that i posted up pictures with one of my guy friends and he is kissing my cheek, he seemed to get mad or jealous about the pictures. So now we havent been talking for a good week and i want him back even though my head is telling me that i cant take him back after everything he did to me. My heart is telling me that he is what i want. I dont know what he can see in her that he doesnt see in me because he told me a few days before he told me about the girl that he loved me and he would never be able to find someone else. please help me on this situation. im totally confused and dont know what to do anymore !!!!
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Comments (3)
Tell him to take a hike. You are not his property, and after everything he has done to you, he doesn't even deserve you.
The first time J broke up with me, we didn't talk for a month. It was hard at first not to call or leave messages, but after awhile I started to feel better. (Of course he ruined it by calling after a month of ignoring me, but that's beside the point)
Set yourself some rules. No contact. No looking at old e-mails/letters/stuff from him. No looking at myspace/xanga/facebook etc profiles. At least until your head clears.
And as for the part where he told you he loved you days before he professed his undying devotion to some other chick? It's a total cop-out. He was probably just saying it because he didn't want you to realize anything was wrong.
thanks for your advice! (: it really helped.