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friends with benefits with a taken man? HELP

well because of this whole situation with my now ex boyfriend...i went out to a club with some of my friends. One of my girl friends introduced me to one of her old friends and we started talking and flirting but it was nothing to serious. So we took some shots of tequila and we first kissed when we shared a lime haha..sooo it started there and we have been hookin up now everytime we went out...so now the problem is that i saw his myspace and i saw that he had a kissing picture with a girl which i found out is his GIRLFRIEND ! wtf ! y do i always get myself into dumb shit ! so i brought it up to him and now he knows that i kno but he says he still wants to be the same with me ....which is basically to be friends with benefits..now i do like him and i wouldnt mind just seeing where things would go BUT he has a girlfriend and i just think thats a little fucked out ... for one ill be the OTHER girl and i dunt want to be that girl...what do i do????? HELP!

Taking me back?

ok so lets start off with what is bothering me the most right now which is the fact that i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years on and off. We have stopped talking for many times in spans of a few months. Now all of a sudden he loves another girl?? Out of nowhere he comes out with this idea. I couldn't believe it and he seems to be happy so i dont even know what to do because he is the love of my life and i dont see myself building a life and a family with no one other then him. He says he doesnt care about me but the fact that i posted up pictures with one of my guy friends and he is kissing my cheek, he seemed to get mad or jealous about the pictures. So now we havent been talking for a good week and i want him back even though my head is telling me that i cant take him back after everything he did to me. My heart is telling me that he is what i want. I dont know what he can see in her that he doesnt see in me because he told me a few days before he told me about the girl that he loved me and he would never be able to find someone else. please help me on this situation. im totally confused and dont know what to do anymore !!!!
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